23-year-old gas station worker asks for Thanksgiving off after taking Halloween off last minute, gets denied because it would force his 34-year-old manager to work 24 hours straight

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Am I the bad guy for not giving my coworker Thanksgiving off?

I, 34F work as an assistant manager at a convenience store/gas station. We're open 24/7, so we usually have someone who works overnight. My coworker, let's call him Tom 23M has been working overnight for about a month.
This morning, he asked for Thanksgiving off. I want to tell him no. Last week, he took Halloween and the day after off, leaving us to find other workers to help, or me working double shifts. I have a second job first thing in the morning and I can not ask for time off. Before
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anyone asks, I did try to request the day after Thanksgiving off to celebrate my BF's birthday, but it's a blackout week. They prohibit anyone asking for time off Thanksgiving week.
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So there's no confusion, my shift is 2pm-10pm. My second job is 6am-2pm. If he does call out, I'd be working from 6am Thursday morning to 2pm Friday afternoon, a quadruple shift.
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I told Tom "for major holidays, we get paid extra. I have to work on Thanksgiving too, but at least you'll have Christmas day off." Tom is still new and I feel like I'm being the AH for not giving him the day off. But, I need him to work on that specific day. AITA?
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Conscious_Cake1270 Nta thats sadly how jobs are when you are new and the same reason yours got denied as well, along with burning you out
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Shahajans The bigger issues is management leaving you both understaffed instead of hiring enough people.
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Chessed_Tova Especially how it s ks on holidays but burning out another employee to accommodate someone else isn't fair either. So OP should not have to work herself out to cover Tom shift
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Strong-Milk2777 Exactly. It is incredibly easy for people to scream 'just hire more staff!' but in the real world of 24/7 retail, you are running a skeletal crew on overnight shifts. You literally cannot afford to have people taking blackout dates off, especially a brand-new hire who just took Halloween. It's a convenience store, not a corporate office. If he calls out, OP is the one who suffers the 32-hour quadruple shift, not upper management.
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havingaconniption Doesn't the fact that her other job is elsewhere affect your opinion here? If she was doing a 32hr shift at this place, I would understand the logic. But surely one shouldn't be expected to plan their shifts around a coworkers second job?
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musthavesoundeffects Except that really has nothing to do with it. OP deserves time off, regardless of what they are gonna do with that time, the new guy got Halloween off and is getting Christmas off. People take turns for holidays in any reasonable workplace.
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havingaconniption I think she should just refuse the leave because they have a blackout on staff leave that week. My point was more that he isn't asking her to work a 32-hour shift at this job. He is just asking for someone to cover his overnight shift.
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NotCreativeAtAll16 NTA. You tell him he can't have it off as that is a blackout week. Period.
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Grouchy-Boss-9638 This! It's not up to you. It's a blackout week and no one can request it off. Period. End of story.
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Devonelove123 NTA for telling him no but I'd be prepared for him to call out that day anyway unfortunately.
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parisa_petrichor NTA. It's a blackout week, nobody gets time off, including you. Tom signed up for a 24/7 overnight position, and taking a major holiday off right after taking Halloween off isn't realistic for a new hire in retail. You aren't being an a h le; you're upholding basic policy.
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